The 50% Responsibility of the Neuronormative

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In the realm of human culture and society, the notion of superiority is often subjective and elusive. It is essential to recognize that there is no inherent superiority of neurotypical culture and society over neurodivergent ones, nor vice versa. Instead, what we encounter are differences, each with its own set of strengths and areas for improvement.

Firstly, it is crucial to understand that cultural and societal norms are largely shaped by the predominant neurotype in a given population. Neurotypical culture has, for the most part, established the baseline for social norms and behaviors. However, these norms are not inherently superior; they are simply the product of the majority’s influence.

Secondly, diversity in thought and perspective is a hallmark of human culture and society. Neurodivergent individuals bring unique perspectives and talents to the table that can enrich our collective experience. For instance, individuals with autism often exhibit exceptional attention to detail and analytical thinking, which can be valuable in various fields.

Furthermore, asserting the superiority of one neurotype’s culture or society implies a hierarchy of human experiences, which is both unjust and unfounded. Humanity thrives when it embraces a spectrum of perspectives and talents. Different neurotypes contribute to a mosaic of ideas, innovation, and progress.

In addition, equating neurotypical culture with superiority perpetuates harmful stereotypes and biases. It can lead to the marginalization and exclusion of neurodivergent individuals, hindering their full participation in society. This exclusionary mindset limits our potential as a collective species and hinders social cohesion.

Ultimately, the concept of superiority in the context of culture, society, and humanity is a fallacy. There is no objective measure by which one can declare a neurotypical culture or society as superior. Instead, our focus should be on recognizing the value of diversity, promoting inclusivity, and fostering an environment where all individuals, regardless of their neurotype, can contribute and thrive. In doing so, we can build a more equitable and harmonious world.

In any collective, dynamic, or community environment, neurotypical individuals bear a significant responsibility in addressing the “double empathy problem” and ensuring inclusivity. This responsibility lies in recognizing the value of neurodiversity, actively seeking understanding, and avoiding avoidance, reluctance, or supremacist thinking that obstructs the recognition and acceptance of this responsibility.

  1. Recognition of Bias and Assumptions: The first step for neurotypical individuals is to recognize that societal norms are shaped predominantly by neurotypical perspectives. This recognition acknowledges the existence of bias and assumptions that might marginalize neurodivergent individuals. Avoidance of this responsibility often manifests when individuals fail to acknowledge the existence of these biases, assuming that the status quo is the universal norm. Example: In a workplace setting, a neurotypical manager may insist on communication methods that align with their neurotype, disregarding the needs of neurodivergent employees who may require alternative communication strategies.
  2. Active Listening and Learning: Neurotypical individuals should actively engage in listening to and learning from their neurodivergent peers. This involves making a genuine effort to understand their experiences, needs, and perspectives. Reluctance occurs when individuals are hesitant to invest the time and effort needed for such understanding. Example: In a classroom, a teacher may be reluctant to provide accommodations for neurodivergent students, believing that it would disrupt the class’s rhythm, thereby neglecting the opportunity to create a more inclusive learning environment.
  3. Challenging Supremacist Thinking: Neurotypical individuals must challenge any subconscious or overt supremacist thinking that positions neurotypical culture or societal norms as superior. This can involve questioning deeply ingrained stereotypes and beliefs that may inadvertently marginalize neurodivergent individuals. Example: In social settings, some neurotypical individuals might dismiss the ideas or contributions of neurodivergent peers, assuming that their way of thinking is inherently superior. This supremacist thinking hinders collaboration and innovation.
  4. Advocacy and Support: Neurotypical individuals can play a crucial role as allies by advocating for neurodiversity and supporting policies and practices that promote inclusivity. This means actively working to remove barriers that prevent neurodivergent individuals from fully participating in various aspects of society. Example: Within a community organization, a neurotypical member may advocate for changes to event planning, making it more accessible and comfortable for neurodivergent participants. Avoidance of this responsibility would involve turning a blind eye to exclusionary practices.
  5. Creating Inclusive Environments: Finally, neurotypical individuals should actively contribute to creating environments that accommodate the needs and preferences of neurodivergent individuals. This includes making reasonable accommodations and adjustments to ensure equitable access and participation. Example: In a neighborhood association, a neurotypical leader may work with others to ensure that meetings and events are sensory-friendly to accommodate the needs of neurodivergent residents, recognizing that a failure to do so could exclude certain community members.

Here’s a list of things neurotypical individuals can do daily to shift their biases and challenge their own supremacist or eugenicist behaviors:

  • Self-Reflection: Dedicate time each day to reflect on your thoughts and actions. Ask yourself if any of your beliefs or behaviors might be influenced by biases or stereotypes.
  • Educate Yourself: Commit to learning more about neurodiversity and different neurotypes. Read books, articles, and watch documentaries or TED talks to broaden your understanding.
  • Listen Actively: Practice active listening when engaging with neurodivergent individuals or those with different perspectives. Make a conscious effort to understand their experiences without judgment.
  • Seek Diverse Perspectives: Actively seek out diverse voices in your social circles, online communities, and media consumption. Exposure to different viewpoints can challenge preconceived notions.
  • Question Assumptions: Whenever you catch yourself making assumptions about someone based on their neurotype or differences, pause and question those assumptions. Are they fair or accurate?
  • Empathy Building: Put yourself in the shoes of a neurodivergent person by imagining how they might experience the world. This exercise can enhance your empathy and understanding.
  • Advocate for Inclusion: Speak up and advocate for inclusive practices in your workplace, school, or community. Encourage policies and accommodations that support neurodivergent individuals.
  • Challenge Stereotypes: Challenge stereotypes and misconceptions about neurodiversity whenever you encounter them. Use factual information to counteract harmful beliefs.
  • Engage in Meaningful Conversations: Engage in open and respectful conversations with neurodivergent individuals. Ask questions, seek clarification, and foster dialogue to bridge gaps in understanding.
  • Daily Acts of Inclusivity: Make a daily commitment to perform small acts of inclusivity. This could involve using inclusive language, creating accessible content, or making spaces more welcoming.
  • Remember that challenging biases and supremacist behaviors is an ongoing process. It requires self-awareness, continuous learning, and a willingness to change. By incorporating these daily practices into your routine, you can contribute to a more inclusive and equitable society where everyone’s contributions are valued and respected.

In summary, neurotypical individuals hold a significant responsibility in addressing the “double empathy problem” and fostering a more inclusive society. Avoiding this responsibility, being reluctant to engage, or succumbing to supremacist thinking only perpetuates barriers and divides. Recognizing the value of neurodiversity and actively working to bridge the empathy gap is essential for creating a more equitable and harmonious world where all individuals, regardless of their neurotype, can thrive and contribute meaningfully.

Author: BLB
Talk2BLB is B.L. Bradley, a medically retired technology analyst, business and solutions architect, and product manager with more than three decades of experience shaping and delivering deep-technology concepts, from the 1980s to 2015. She developed Lensing, a proprietary framework for rapidly assessing markets, industries, domains, and emerging issues, the Bradley Quadrant, for rapidly parting and precisely scoping product and backlog items, and is credited on projects ranging from award-winning health care design to precedent-setting cases pertinent to our shared privacy and communication freedoms. Bradley welcomes inquiries and works to client briefs. Project-based, retained, and contract engagements are available. You may connect with her on Eurosky at @Talk2BLB.Eurosky.Social.